COMPARING AND CONTRASTING Being strict or lenient with children

Being strict or lenient with children are positive in some ways but negative in others. These attitudes have each own positive and negative effects for children. First, being a strict person is always seemed bad for most of people. It because being a strict person means has a long distance communication with children and does not care what children do, therefore it can make him/her be hated by children. In another way, being a lenient person is always liked by children. The children always feel happy when they interact with this person. For example, they do something together to overcome a problem which makes them be closer, etc. But, In another side, being a strict person also has the positive effects. For example, there is a child who always do something with his friends. Someday, this strict person try to separate them. Then this child doing his work by himself. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like this child. But he just try to make this child to be a confident person. Then, being a lenient person also has negative effects when he gives too much freedom to the children. The children will do anything they want which can make them be the childish person. But, if we compare and contrast from both attitudes. Being a lenient person is better than another one, because it is the good way  to teach children how to be an interesting person.

NURYULIA, 3BA